Ruben
As we neared the small, isolated pueblo of Villa de Progreso, we spotted an elderly-looking man, a haggard figure, dressed in torn clothes and an old cowboy hat, with several weeks growth of unkempt beard on his face, walking beside the dusty road.
“Brother Steve, pull over! I think that’s him!” Ruben’s voice trembled slightly as he spoke.
We pulled over, and Ruben jumped out of the van. This was the man we had traveled almost 200 miles to find. This was the man Ruben had prayed and fasted for, the one for whose salvation his heart burned. a little unsure of how to begin, Ruben cautiously approached the old farmer.
“Excuse me sir, could you tell me your name?”
“My name is Sidronio Castillo Sanchez. And yours?”
“My name is Ruben Castillo Vega. You are my father.”
“Ruben?” It took a few seconds to realize that this handsome young man standing before him was the eight-year-old boy that haunted his memories. A closer look into his face dispelled all doubt.
Tears began to well up in the man’s eyes as he blurted out, “Ruben! My son!”
The moment is too sacred to describe. The young Baptist preacher embraced the father he had not laid eyes on for over 12 years. Until this moment, Ruben’s family was just another statistic - another home destroyed by the evils of alcohol. But from this moment on, the story is forever changed. Because of the grace of Jesus Christ, a father and son are reconciled!
Ruben had suffered. He had watched his mother sweep streets to provide for her children. He had seen his brother leave home to move to America in search of work. He himself had gone to work as a small child, selling donuts on the street corners to help put food on the table. He had grown up without a Dad. But instead of bitterly demanding some kind of explanation or compensation for the void his father left in his life so long ago, Ruben arrived with a heart overflowing with love and a message of hope.
I left the pair and spent the rest of the day in a nearby town. The rest of their day was spent strolling through the cornfield, looking over the cattle and the fighting roosters, talking about all that had transpired in the years they had missed. Finally, Ruben got around to the real purpose of his visit.
“Papa, I came here to talk to you about something very important. I received Jesus Christ as my Saviour last year, and I have given my life to serve Him. I am studying now to be a pastor. I came to tell you how you can know Him, too, and how you can be 100% sure of spending eternity with Him when you die.”
Then he took the Bible and sat down with his father to tell him the Good News of our Lord Jesus Christ. After about an hour, Sidronio humbly bowed before the Lord and recieved Eternal Life!
Truly, today was a day that both father and son will remember for time and eternity!
It is amazing how much more love will accomplish than anger. Some people seem to hold onto anger with a desperate passion, as if letting it go would rob them of their spirit. It fuels their energy and motivates them to achievement. What they never seem to realize is that it is the same energy that motivates them, eventually destroys them and those they love.
“I will restore the years that the locust hath eaten...” so says the Lord through the prophet Joel. I believe what I saw that day in the embrace of father and son was the restoration of years lost to sin and shame. It reminds me that anyone can forgive with the grace of God, and that such forgiveness opens the door to God’s power of restoration.
Today, Ruben is a missionary in the Ivory Coast, West Africa. To the best of our knowledge, he is the first evangelical Mexican missionary to be established there. After the writing of this letter, Ruben finished Bible college and worked as an assistant pastor for two years. During this time, he studied French in a language school in Mexico City before spending two years traveling and raising support for his missionary endeavors through Mexican churches. These two years of travel had a tremendous impact in the churches where he ministered.
Ruben's monthly newsletters may be read at his mission agency’s website, at www.mabmi.org.mx
